HELP!!! I don't know what to do in my relationship!!! SO CONFUSEDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!?

wow, i've kinda been in your shoes..... ditch them both!! move on and start anew!! there really is no way to motivate your current BF, other than talking to him and voicing your concerns, make an ultimatum, if he doesn't change, you leave. It'll be the best thing, you have a bright future, those 2 losers do not. you're young like I was, you WILL meet the perfect someone like i did. :) (and it wasnt either of them)